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    MCRgirl25 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 31, 2012, 01:24 PM
    I don't know if I cheated on my boyfriend...
    I was at the pool with friends and then everyone left except me and my friend Mikel. We were messing around playing Truth or Dare. He dared me to kiss him but he remembered I had a boyfriend and he knew I wanted my first kiss to be special. We were talking when he suddenly kissed me on the cheek so I kissed him back... I felt horrible when I got home. I don't know if I cheated on my boyfriend or not, but I feel terrible. HELP!
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    Mar 31, 2012, 08:51 PM
    It's not cheating unless you have feeling for this Mike character. But what I know you were just caught up in the moment. And get me wrong but on what you said... he lead you on by kissing you first.
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    Mar 31, 2012, 09:36 PM
    Like dark09 said unless you have feelings for him it's not really cheating on him unless you have feelings for him. From what you said it sounds like you really like this mIke guy. It just depends who you would rather be with.
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    Apr 1, 2012, 05:53 AM
    Kissing on the cheek is okay as long as you don't have the intention of kissing him more. Speak to your boyfriend and tell him you hope he's okay, and that you feel bad because you weren't aware whether it would hurt his feelings or not.

    (PS - I was a HUGE MCR fan when I was 14-15!)

    x Dani
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    Apr 1, 2012, 06:27 AM
    I guess what would your boyfriend think about it, if he
    1. saw it happening
    2. heard about it from your friend
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    Apr 1, 2012, 07:41 AM
    Let's see - if you heard that your boyfriend kissed someone, how would you feel and would you post about it here?
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    Apr 3, 2012, 12:31 AM
    Well you need to tell your boyfriend about this, things could be a whole lot worse if he found out from somewhere else. Telling him straight what happened is sure to really stop him from making it into a big deal. Tell him that your not planning on doing It again and that there is no feeling there. Remind him how you feel about him too. This will also stop you from feeling guilty, you will feel much better when it's out in the open. And this mike guy, he doesn't sound like that good of a person. He knew you were with someone and still kissed you. Make sure your boyfriend knows that he initiated it first. Mike encouraged you to cheat on your boyfriend, and pure and simple - that is not right . It doesn't matter how much he likes you, he shouldn't have acted the wAy he did with you when he knows your taken. Make sure mike knows that nothing is going to happen between you, or your situation could get messy. When you set both of them straight, things will be a lot clearer and less stressful. If your boyfriend gets upset, give him a little space. You staying there could make him angry. So let him have his space and don't worry he just needs time to think things through. Don't call him if he wants space, let him come to you. Hope this helped! Love anna x
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    Apr 3, 2012, 02:55 AM
    How old are you? Tell you boy friend he kissed you on the cheek and you kissed him back, you'll feel better.
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