[iGirl]

We have been dating for over 7 months. But recently he went on a trip, met his ex and they slept together. He is planning to go on another trip with her. But at the same time he says he wants me and I am the one. I am heartbroken and do not have enough strength to end this.

[tyshae88]

No one could make the decision for you, but don't let him walk all over you trust me I know its hard, he do it once hell do it twice make the best choice for yourself not him... they come n go

[Fr_Chuck]

So you want to go with them and make it a group?

Do you mind sharing, he leaves her bed and comes to yours.

Of course he wants you to, why not, one this week, another next week.

Not sure why you have a issue with dumping him?

[Jake2008]

It is one thing to do the very hard work of recovering from an affair that your boyfriend has had with his ex.

It's quite another situation when he tells you upfront that he plans on repeating this with his ex, again.

You are aware, and there are no questions as to what he's up to, or who he's sleeping with, and plans to sleep with again.

He has made his choice, and you hesitate to realize the relationship is over, unless you accept it.

I don't know if it is a matter of a lack of confidence on your part, or wishful thinking that he can change, or a lack of seeing things for what they are because it is just too painful.

If ever there was a reason to end a relationship, I think your boyfriend has spelled it out for you.