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    Mar 25, 2012, 02:23 PM
    My best friend and my crush are going to date..
    I dated this guy a little over a year ago. We lasted like 5 months and then I broke up with him. (Biggest mistake of my life, btw) Ever since then, I have still had very strong feelings for him. I tried dating other guys to bounce back, but that didn't work at at all. About a month ago, he told me that he has always had feelings for me, and I told him the same. He was shocked.. He didn't think that I had liked him anymore. He asked me to be his girlfriend and I said that I would love to, but I just got out of a relationship. I want to wait a little bit, just so people don't say I'm hopping from guy to guy. He said that was fine, and we continued talking. 2 weeks later however, (we weren't dating yet) he broke it off. He said that he likes someone else but didn't say who. Come to find out, it was my 1 of my 3 bestfriends. I was completely heartbroken. My friend told him that she wouldn't date him because she couldn't do that to me, so he moved on to my 2nd best friend. She said that she wouldn't so that to me either, and then a couple days ago we started talking again. He told me he liked me and me, being an idiot, believed him. I told him liked him too. My 3rd best friend knew that I always had loved him. I told her me and his conversation we had on a Wednesday... And by Thursday she magically had a crush on him, too. He asked her out (Completely ditching me for the 2nd time in a month) and she's going to say yes. What do I do? Please help!
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    Mar 25, 2012, 06:38 PM
    I know it may seem the hardest thing in the world, but it may be best to move on to someone else. I mean, if he can move from girl to girl that quickly, he may not be the best boyfriend either. If you really can't get over him, make it seem like this doesn't bother you at all even if you still like him. Act as if nothing is happening when you are around them. Don't be a girl who is easy to get. Let him know that you need to see a change in him if he wants you to still like him.

    About your friend, if she has done this to you twice in the same month she may not be the best friend you think she is. If she really does like him, don't let a guy ruin your friendship because friends can be a great part of life and you don't want your friendship to be ruined in this way.
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    Mar 25, 2012, 06:54 PM
    You should be glad to be rid of him, he left, then came back, but then went for one best friend, then a second best friend.

    Assuming this is not 6 or 7th grade where this is more common, He is a dog, just going from girl to girl. You were just another one in the row.
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    Mar 25, 2012, 06:57 PM
    He's a pig. Be glad you're not going out with him and find someone that treats you better.
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    Mar 26, 2012, 03:47 PM
    Wow he's a hoe I think you need to move on and replace your third best friends
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    Mar 26, 2012, 03:59 PM
    You should be thankful that you found out what type of person he was before you got stuck with him. Let your friend have him, he'll break her heart to, and then move on to yet another girl, and then another, and another.

    You're better than that. Forget about him, you deserve better.

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