[clueless_16]

Me & my ex were together for almost 2 months, I know it doesn't sound long but I was like love at first sight we were so happy together. The only problem was my family wouldn't let me be with him because of his age difference ( 6 years ) so we had to hide our whole relationship it was going great until we eventually got caught out. I had to break it of with him immediately it hurt so much, he then moved away and didn't talk to me at all.

4 months later he decided to talk to me, he had a girlfriend and I had a boyfriend, we texted each other and it turned out we both love and miss each other, then he stopped talking to me again.

Just the other day I bumped into him at the local shopping centre a place I would have never thought to see him, he gave me this really big hug its was so cute and all those feelings just came rushing back, turns out he now lives like 15 minutes away from me and him and his girlfriend are no longer together, I am still with my boyfriend who I have been with for 4 months, my partner claims to be in love with me. I like him a lot, don't get me wrong, I am happy with him but the feelings I have with me ex just over do the whole thing.

If I could I would be with my ex but the only problem is I'd have to hide it, and risk losing him again, I love him so much it hurts, and I can't tell anyone. He says he loves me too, and we talk about our past relationship all the time, how happy we were together.

We've been talking a lot lately. I just don't know what to do. I can't fight these feeling, but I can't hurt my boyfriend either..

[talaniman]

Harshness Warning

You don't want to hurt the new guy by dumping him, but cheating is okay? Professing love to anyone even an ex behind his back is cheating, and lying. What is he just a tampon to make you feel better, or say you have someone who says he loves you and give you attention?

That's so dishonest to string some one along and deceive them by think you are loyal, but are not. You cannot be with the older guys so stop the contact, OR be honest with the new guy.

Do the right thing by him, since he THINKS you are any way. Set him free to find real love, not the false love you offer. Let him have a chance at real love and loyalty, not the back stabbing you feel so determined to perpetrate.

I wonder how old you are, and how old is he? I am sure whatever culture you are from, honest, and honor are important qualities.