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    xChriis Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 27, 2012, 04:18 PM
    How do I stop wanting sex?
    I guess the title is self explanatory, I'm a male, 17 years old, a virgin.

    I'm in a relationsip and I guess me wanting sex is tearing it apart so I've decided to not think/want sex at all.

    Any hints?
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    Feb 27, 2012, 06:43 PM
    You don't stop thinking about it, but you put it where it belongs, in something you look forward to, some time in the future. I will assume you masterbate on some regular basis, this often helps calm the urges. But the urges are normal, and just have to be controlled.
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    Feb 28, 2012, 06:50 PM
    Well how do I control them? At least
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    Feb 28, 2012, 07:38 PM
    Do like we did in the '50s and '60s -- sublimate. Dive into school and work and hobbies and sports and reading for pleasure and hiking and cleaning house (the big jobs) under Mom's supervision. Stay busy.
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