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    dsfoi Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 16, 2010, 12:02 PM
    How do I stop wanting and desiring women?
    How do I stop wanting and desiring women? Straight male, early twenties, not married, and no girlfriend. I want to stop wanting and desiring woman so I can focus 100% and accumulating as much money as humanly possible. I need discipline without extreme measures such as chemical castration. Its not for religious reasons, because well, there is no God obviously. I just want to 100% focus on getting rich.
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    Oct 16, 2010, 12:11 PM

    Then focus on getting rich.

    Do you really think there is a "cure" for sexuality?

    Tell you what--tell all the girls you meet what you posted here, and believe me, none of them will be interested in you at all, and you won't have to worry about it.

    If you're asking us how to control your thoughts--well, there's no easy answer to that.

    I suggest either a hypnotist or a counselor. I recommend the counselor--I think you'll get more out of it.
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    Oct 16, 2010, 04:08 PM

    Focusing 100% on any goal destroys balance in yourself and your life.

    If you give up being interested in women, are you also giving up friends and family? They can be more of a distraction when it comes to goals than women can.

    I suggest counseling to find a path in life that works for you in all areas of your life not just one.
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    Oct 16, 2010, 04:30 PM

    I could quote St Augustine on his trials with women, but I will be blunt, first there is no need to control it, Hugh Hiefner comes to mind, he made his fortune making sure you don't control yours.

    And often a positive relationship will help you build other relationships ( business). I know as during my years as a VP with a couple large corporations, marriage was actually expected, single men really moved up slower in the corp ladder.

    And of course, no god, no women, no relationships ( and will end in really no friendships, money and wealth will have little or no real meaning over just the greed to have it.
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    Oct 17, 2010, 10:54 AM

    There is no way to give up your sexuality. Aside from becoming a eunich maybe. But believe me, you do NOT want that. Lol.

    I agree with cat. You need to find balance in your life. Though it may seem cold, a schedule may help. Make a poster board of your activitys. Work, finances, sex, etc. and set specific times for each one.

    Some people don't like being that structured but some thrive on it. Give it a try.
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    Oct 18, 2010, 05:23 AM

    Simple old saying sums it up best.

    "Money can't buy happiness."

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