[Hopeneverleaves]

My boyfriend and I aren't having sex...

[Hopeneverleaves]

My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. He really is a great guy. I have never been so happy with someone ever. I'm 23 and he's 30 so there's a little bit of an age difference, but it doesn't really bother me. When we first started dating we use to go out to the bar every weekend. He worked a lot over the summer but always made time for me. In the winter time he works less, so we can spend more time together. Since the day we met we have been joined at the hip, which for him isn't what he does. I know that he loves me, and I know that he's not cheating, there's just some things I'm not understanding. I know all men love porn. And that's not fine, I'm not jealous of a dirty movie. But it seems to me that my man would almost rather watch porn then have sex with me. I've caught him so many times watching porn. But it makes me wonder why are we going weeks without sex when we use to have sex all the time? I know relationships get to the "comfort zone" but he won't even touch me. Video games, work, and porn seem to be all that matters to him anymore. And secondly, every girl loves it when her man compliments her. My boyfriend will say how Hott a random girl is on the street but very rarely calls me beautiful? None of it makes sense to me, help?

[novak]

Try talking to him, if you have already disregard.
Try something new, something spontaneous, buy a sexy outfit, role play for him. 'act out' one of his porn fantasies.
Research new ways to turn him on in the bed. Or sit down and watch porn with him.
I know I sound like a stereotypical man right now, but even if you aren't interested or like porn at least he will get the vibe that you really want to have sex with him.
Whisper something dirty in his ear and go have a shower. Just experiment Hun and I hope it all works out. A man should never let a woman get frustrated in the sex department, so do your best :)