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Can I talk to my ex boyfriend?
I' married and have wonderful husband and son. Happy family. Recently I came across my ex boyfriend's contact information. Now it looks like he has wonderful family with two children.
I don't have feeling for him but yet I just want to talk to him. He know's my contact info but he did not try to contact me. Can I call him? |
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Yeah sure you cann :)
But talk to you husband first tell him that he don't need to worry ! And tell him that he's just a friend and you don't feel anything ! When you call your ex tell him you just want to say hey not more ! Be his friend ! And let him introduce you to his wife and children :) ! |
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Nin 2012,
Welcome to this great site, first! No doubt, you CAN talk to him. It is not a sin to talk to a person of opposite sex, especially if you have in such an intimate relationship with him. I agree with RANIA 1 too, when she says you should reveal it to your husband, as it will not leave any chance of your partner getting worried or tense at you, in case he happens to learn about your meeting or contacting him. Revelation to him will remove any chances of your spouse getting red at you. Talk to him, and him! I mean to your husband, and your ex-bf. |
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I think it's great that you and your ex have moved on with your lives and have families of your own. I guess the question is... what is the real motive behind wanting to contact him? Generally when a relationship is over it's over. Period. You created memories with your ex... intimate ones which for me could be difficult when talking to him. What would your husband think if you started talking to your ex-boyfriend? Many men... not all... develope jealous over our exes and your ex-boyfriend is doing the right thing by not initiating any form of contact with you because you both broke up for some reason or other and he has fell in love... we would assume... and moved on with his life. The no contact rule is put in place for a reason so we can fully move on with our lives and create new memories with the person were with now.
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