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griffin1 · Feb 4, 2012, 11:16 AM

Ok so here are the details:

-I have recently started hanging out very often with this girl who was already in my group of friends
-I have developed pretty strong feelings for her
-She has a boyfriend who goes to the same college as us, but he is on an internship a few hours away this semester
-I really feel a connection with her, and want to tell her how I feel. The problem is I don't want to intrude on her relationship.
-Part of me feels I should just let this one go and try to move on. But I feel like moving on would be difficult since we have a lot of the same friends and we all hang out all the time

So what do you all think? Should I tell her how I feel? Or try and let her go? If you think I should let her go, what would you recommend since we see each other so much? I don't like the feeling of having to hold this inside at all.

Thanks for your help in advance!

talaniman · Feb 4, 2012, 05:59 PM

Talaniman Rule, Leave people who are in relationships alone, and get your own.

What a perfect waste of time, and an invitation to a disaster pursuing someone that has someone. Use you common sense, and tell the heaart and hormones to shut up before they lead you to do something stupid, and humiliating. You know better than this.

xadmin · Feb 7, 2012, 12:50 PM

Originally Posted by talaniman

Talaniman Rule, Leave people who are in relationships alone, and get your own.

What a perfect waste of time, and an invitation to a disaster pursuing someone that has someone. use you common sense, and tell the heaart and hormones to shut up before they lead you to do something stupid, and humiliating. You know better than this.

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nak001 · Jun 7, 2012, 01:46 PM

You know, I'm actually in a similar situation. In my case we talk we sometimes flirt... and we just normally hang out with each other. I haven't told her about my feelings yet. But the way we talk to each other, I feel that there is a connection. The best thing to do is just wait it out and just flirt some more with her. This will cause her to start thinking about you. Eventually, if she does like you, she will break up with her boyfriend and come find you herself. That's how it usually works. This has happened to me before. The case I explained to you is happening right now.

Good luck