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    Jan 20, 2012, 12:58 PM
    Should I wait for my boyfriend to contact me?
    Well this happened before Christmas on the 23rd of December, my boyfriend didn't contact me the day before. So he sent me a message on the morning apologizing that he over slept and told me he loves me and everything. Was a normal message. Then Christmas came and I think he went to spend it with his family, but I haven't heard from him since then. I called him many times but he doesn't answer so I assumed he forgot his phone since he always does, but its been almost a month and I haven't heard from him at all.

    BTW this is a long distance relationship. Anyway he did login into Facebook and posted stuff like twice. I did tell him I don't want to see him online during his holidays, and he should enjoy himself, but it's a whole month?

    Should I still think he's in a holiday and wait or..
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    Jan 20, 2012, 01:02 PM
    Sounds like he has moved on to something or someone else and really is not good about telling you it is over.

    1. we know he is not dead
    2. if he was in any type of relationship that he valued, he could have emailed you or at least Facebook message.

    So I would say, don't bother contacting him, ** you tried** and just forget him and move on.
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    Jan 20, 2012, 03:09 PM
    He might not have a phone, but he does have Facebook, so ask him what's up? How old are you both? And how long has the distance separated you? Is this just an on line thing or what?
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    Jan 24, 2012, 12:03 PM
    Well I'm 21 and he is 22,and we have been together for mmm a year and 3 months.he was planning to visit me later this year.and I don't know we didn't fight before he disappeared all I know he went for a holiday.I messaged him right after the day he sent me a message and got nothing.. kinda weird to decide to ignore me in less than 24 hours..
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    Jan 24, 2012, 02:46 PM
    I don't think he is ignoring you, just busy doing his thing. But a month??

    I would be PO'd to say the least, just at the lack of courtesy and respect. What would be interesting is how long this "holiday" lasts.

    In my mind its not okay, and he is pushing the boundaries of good behavior rather hard at this point!

    Are you sure you have a boyfriend, officially with an agreed upon title, and exclusive commitment?

    Have you ever dated in person? How long?
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