[Curious_Thinker]

I'm fourteen turning fifteen and my quinceanera is in 3 week. This guy I like, I'm starting to like him less. He is a little less than a year younger than me, and I meet him through a friend. I enjoy hanging out with him but my mom is always cracking jokes, and my twin sister keeps calling me a pedo, and a cougar. My mom is also trying to make me dance with him in front of pretty much everyone I know at my quince.

This thing has gone so far to where I don't want to dance with him, I'd rather dance with my cousin. And on top of that he's shy and won't make a move, its been a little over a year and he still hasn't kissed me. AND on top of that I don't like having a boyfriend, being so tied makes me uncomfortable. At times I just wanted to break up whatever we have, even though were not going out, but I can't because my stupid mom has decided to make his mom here best buddy.

I hate to be a racist, B**** but he's white, and I'm hispanic, and that kind of bothers me, even though he is kind of cute he's not the dream guy I was looking for. Can someone please help me!!

[talaniman]

I doubt you are racist just because you are tired of the hassle this relationship is causing you. Just be honest with the guy and tell him you are no longer interested in having a relationship. Be gentle.