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    Jan 5, 2012, 07:50 AM
    Extremely Bored with relationship (s)
    I'm a 21 year old student. I have met a guy that really likes but I'm not feeling as strongly as him. I have only had one serious relationship and I cheated in the relationship with a guy who was a couple of years older. I have noticed I grow extremely bored in a matter of weeks. I think I have become caught up in the chase and the initial high you get from meeting and liking someone new that once all that is gone... I'm gone! It's not like I don't want a relationship it's just I can't find anyone to hold my attention. I'm starting to think I'm not a relationship person! Is this normal?
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    Jan 5, 2012, 08:52 AM
    I think it's something to do with age. You apparently aren't ready for a serious, steady relationship.

    Eventually you will be.
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    Jan 6, 2012, 07:02 PM
    Just be honest with your partner and let them know how you feel. It is terrible to be in a relationship with someone who isn't as interested as you think they are. I know,, been there-done that.
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