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Lexii95 · Dec 27, 2011, 04:46 PM

I have a friend of two years who recently got a boyfriend. I'm not to attracted to him, but we started talking on Facebook and now he texts me daily. We talk about sex and hooking up and stuff but I feel guilty. He says that my friend shouldn't mind but I still feel bad. My "friend" really isn't a friend since she goes crazy about anything, she puts me down often. And I wonder if I'm just messing with her guy because of this. I'm not a slut so no need comments please.

Wondergirl · Dec 27, 2011, 04:49 PM

What do YOU think about your behavior?

Fr_Chuck · Dec 27, 2011, 05:04 PM

So if your friend does not mind, send her a copy ? Do you think she will mind

Lexii95 · Dec 27, 2011, 05:10 PM

Since I've never done this before I feel horrible. She would mind if I would send her copy.

Fr_Chuck · Dec 27, 2011, 07:54 PM

And if you had a boyfriend, would you want him texting like that to your friend.

odinn7 · Dec 27, 2011, 08:52 PM

Of course it's wrong and you know it is... so why are you doing it?

ScottGem · Dec 28, 2011, 04:38 AM

Originally Posted by Lexii95

Since I've never done this before I feel horrible. She would mind if I would send her copy.

Clearly you know its wrong. Texting ANYTHING but platonic messages would be wrong and even that is iffy.

The yardstick for measuring whether any behavior is right is how you would feel if it was done to you. If you wouldn't like it then its wrong and you need to STOP.

Hahahaha13 · Dec 28, 2011, 09:56 PM

I ended up in this before. I ended up dating him pissing my friend off and then her coming to aplogize. But this is just how it ended for me. Ask him and her what they would think and if its negative do what you want.