[nuebeingqueen]

I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years,he don't kiss,he has no type of affection,he don't hug,I can't tell you when he ever look in my face and say baby I love you,we always sleep,he on one side I'm on the other side of the bed,I can't tell you I know what love feels like,I feel no connection but my love I have for him,I'm 28 and desprate for real love, but I fantasize him cause I love him and I'm scared that he maynot feel that way,I'm boored and lonely most of the time and I get jealouse when I see a loving happy couple,I don't know what to do can you please help me out?

[anyadvice6]

I know you must love him if you've been with him for 7 years. If you truly feel it is worth a shot at fixing-then go for it.

First, I think you should talk to him about what you need. Then, don't be afraid to initiate the affection yourself. If you've been together for 7 years it seems to me that there probably is some real love there and hopefully some understanding of what you need.

If things don't change, I'm sorry, but you deserve to be with someone else who can give you what you need. I don't think it is asking much to get affection from your partner. If after you talk to him and begin to initiate the affection, he doesn't soon begin to initiate affection himself, you won't be satisfied and it may be time to move on or see a counselor together.

If in the end you must move on, at least you gave it the best you had, and that's all any of us can ever do.

Good luck with everything.

[mommyof2jj]

I think you should sit down and talk to him. Tell him how you really feel and see if your on the same page, if not then move on life I too short to be sitting around with the wrong person.