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    Dec 11, 2011, 03:42 AM
    Guys call me cute, not hot, sexy, etc?
    Hey guys,

    I was just wondering why I am always always always referred to as cute, and not any other adjective such as hot, sexy, etc. I just want to know if that's a bad thing, or a good thing? The guy of my dreams called me cute-but not to my face. So why is it always cute?
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    Dec 11, 2011, 04:08 AM
    Hello I think cute is beter as swxy may be seen as just a sex object and maybe the man of your dreams said that because he likes you and the fact he's been looking at your cute butt say's it all
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    Dec 11, 2011, 05:05 AM
    Lovely33,

    Welcome to this beautiful site, first!

    Quote Originally Posted by Lovely33 View Post
    Hey guys,

    I was just wondering why I am always always always referred to as cute, and not any other adjective such as hot, sexy, etc. I just want to know if that's a bad thing, or a good thing?
    If you are cute, you can easily become hot and sexy. Wear sexy, hot and modern outfits. Get a new, dashing and tempting haircut, like very short bob, with fringes falling on your forehead and visage. Let the tight outfit conceal less and reveal more. Shave your underarms and show it often, by wearing sleeveless garments. Use moisturisers on your visage to make the face look reddish or pinkish.

    Quote Originally Posted by Lovely33 View Post
    The guy of my dreams called me cute-but not to my face. So why is it always cute?
    May be he fears saying it on your face. Talk to him, and the doubt will be evaporated.
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    Dec 11, 2011, 06:17 AM
    It's not a bad thing to be called cute. I am very happy when a guy says I'm cute, rather than hot or sexy. Take it as a good complement. Walk away with a smile and feel good about it!
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    Dec 11, 2011, 06:25 AM
    It depends on your situation. If you're standing at the end of the bed posing in new underwear for a boyfriend, you'd hardly want "Cute" to be the description!

    If people at school are calling you cute, I'd say it's a compliment.

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    Dec 11, 2011, 06:55 AM
    Dani,

    I agree with you, in toto.

    Depends upon the situation and the time, no doubt. Moreover, it depends upon the country you live in. Like, for instance, it is so tough - almost impossible - to hear even someone calling me cute, if I am in a village in India, and girls can pounce upon the boys, if they do, what to talk of hotty/sexy. In Afghanistan or Pakistan, or in UAE even talking with men/boys attracts strict punishment.
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    Dec 11, 2011, 07:13 AM
    Cute is a great thing to be called :P

    Its better than being called Ugly but acceptable right?

    Hot sexy are more terms used when women are dressed up to the 9s

    Cute I think fall's into the category of gorgeous!
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    Dec 11, 2011, 07:22 AM
    Dani, that's a whole different situation. Most of the special men in our lives think we look sexy in our sexy panties, corsets and dress up clothes during sexual intamacy. YOu don't have to be 17 years old to be cute. I'm a half-breed spanish Gypsy and a lot of spanish gypsy females are known for their attractiveness. YOu just down have to be... ahem... sluttly about it!
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    Dec 11, 2011, 07:23 AM
    That's very true Kahani, cultural differences will have an impact.

    I don't think many people here in England are being called sexy at the moment, it's much too cold to flaunt anything! Snotty nose = NOT too attractive.

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    Dec 11, 2011, 07:25 AM
    Quoting geminichick:

    Most of the special men in our lives think we look sexy in our sexy panties, corsets and dress up clothes during sexual intamacy
    That's why I brought it to attention. If that WERE her situation, she'd probably have more to worry about. Since it isn't, she needs not worry.

    Dani
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    Dec 11, 2011, 08:13 AM
    Lovely33, I think if I we could discuss the topic a little deeper, looking cute to a guy or hot or sexy is a great thing, but if we are only going to base on how a guy feels about us is on our looks than there really is nothing. The most important thing is how does he see your whole inner being! Does he like your personality, the fact that your true to being yourself. He likes your sense of humor and last but not least your looks. The whole person radiates who and how you look on the outside. Honestly, I have met men and women who are not very attractive on the outside, but their heart and inside was beautiful. Too me they were the most attractive person I had ever met. Give that a little thought and the older you get the more you see things that way!
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    Dec 11, 2011, 08:17 AM
    I agree, it's on the inside.

    And to add, I find my current partner incredibly sexy. But the first thing that got me when we first met, were those big beautiful "cute" eyes!

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    Dec 11, 2011, 09:11 PM
    My ex use to say the same thing. Complain about it.

    She knew she was cute.

    Among other things.
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