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    Dec 7, 2011, 02:57 PM
    Very Strange!
    Hi, I have been going to this therapist for awhile and I want to stop. She constantly texts me and calls me if I need to cancel an appointment. I have gone to other therapist and have told me I could use a session once a month. This therpist wants me to see her twice a week. I know she is out for the money. Which I have been going to her twice a week. I'm having a hard time right now with money so I want to stop the sessions. What should I do? I just sent her en email explaining everything but I bet she will text me.
    She keeps callimg me..
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    Dec 7, 2011, 04:34 PM
    Tell her you cannot afford the sessions. If she continues to hound you, report her. That is inappropriate
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    Dec 7, 2011, 04:43 PM
    Do you know, or has she told you, WHY (other than money) she thinks you need to meet with her twice a week?
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    Dec 7, 2011, 06:58 PM
    Talk to her and get a better deal. Do you feel she is helping you? Why are you going to her if I may be so bold?
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    Dec 8, 2011, 07:48 AM
    Hi, Thank you for responding. I have been going to her for relationship issues, Building more confidence. Doing much better. I don't feel I need all these sessions.
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    Dec 8, 2011, 08:32 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by connie102 View Post
    Hi, Thank you for responding. I have been going to her for relationship issues, Building more confidence. Doing much better. I dont feel I need all these sessions.
    I'm a counselor and have worked out all sorts of variations to in-person sit-down counseling sessions -- IMing, email, telephone check-ins, and even short telephone problem-solving sessions. Ask her if you can do something like that with her. I'm guessing she's thinking "accountability."
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    Dec 8, 2011, 09:13 AM
    Tell her that. If confidence was your problem maybe she is waiting for you to say you are confident enough to say what you want and don't want.

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