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lette89 · Nov 26, 2011, 06:27 AM

They have been broken up for almost a year. He is my high school sweetheart and we recently got back together. She has tried to sabotage our relationship a couple of times already by making up stories and what not. I had told him that I wanted him to stop talking to her for those same reasons but it when up to a point that she would not let go of him. She constantly keeps sending flirty messages to him and disrespecting me. She also demands an explanation when he decides to throw her out of our lives. At this point my boyfriend tries to hide the fact that she still calls because he know how much I dislike her and what she is doing. What can I do about it?

DoulaLC · Nov 26, 2011, 06:37 AM

There isn't much you can do. He is the one who needs to set her straight and end the contact. Maybe he enjoys the attention from her. Has he said whether he wants to still be friends with her?

If he doesn't want her contacting him then he needs to tell her and, if necessary, change all of his contact information or block her number.

It would be best if you don't confront her on it, as that will likely only make things worse. Let him take care of it as it is between the two of them.

If he won't, and you don't want to deal with it, end the relationship with him.

Fr_Chuck · Nov 26, 2011, 08:09 AM

The problem here is that he is answering. You can not stop her from calling or texting, He can stop answering, he can never open one of her texts, none of her emails.

The fact he does, is the worry,

mino_slope · Dec 11, 2011, 01:30 PM

Well I have some advice for you she will probably try to destroy your relation ship in any way possible if you don't get her away its only a matter of time until she destroys your relation ship.. sorry but it's the truth you have to get her away by any means possible... p.s killing her is not a good way it will just send you to jail and still destroy you relation ship :P!! First of all you have to talk to your boy friend about it just be strait with him tell him who is your girlfriend now me or her tell him if he likes her getting between you in every thing then I won't be able to live like that its either me or her if you love me you must support me and tell her to stay away from us and that you moved on and that we don't need her to keep ruining our lives like that you're his girlfriend its your right to ask him to stay away from her and tell her to stop talking to her and tell her to not send him any more masseges!! If you don't put and end to this soon you will be in trouble

ABDO...