[Brian552]

My girlfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago. We had some problems in our relationship. But she said she will never love me like somebody else. I am in the military and deployed. After I got here the first month was fine. She said she wants me and only me by her side. But she saw where other girls were writing me on Facebook and my email. I never tried to be with anybody else, but in her eyes she says I cheated by the way I was hiding it from her. She said after about a month of not being together that she will never be able to trust me again. She says she don't love me anymore and the only thing she cares about is my well-being. I have to go back to my base and see her again. She said she hasn't moved on yet but maybe she will. I can barely get through the days without thinking of her. I work 12 hours a day and it seems like she is the only thing I can think about. I dream about just getting her back. I have tried to do little things to make her think of the good times, but she said she don't feel the same way anymore. All I really want is to talk to her to help me get through this deployment. But I don't even think she wants to do that. Does anybody have any advice to give me. I want to try to get over it, but it seems like everything reminds me of her. I mean for the first month I was here I had a plan and that plan revolved around talking to her. So now I just don't know what to do cause I am doing the same routine, but just not talking to her while she is back at my base just moving on and going out like we never even dated.