[slyn123]

Ok so I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year I'm 18 and he's 20. And he still lives at home. I don't get to see him much now because we both work. But when I go over his parents house I feel like I have to fight for his attention against his mom she will bring up people that I don't know and only talk to him about it.

She will cut me off when I talk and she rubs his head and baby's him. There was a time he got a drink and as he asked me if I wanted a drink. She asked for a drink from his cup then when he said yes she said she didn't want it anymore . Is it wrong of me to get upset by that? I love his parents but his mom just annoys me sometimes. What should I do?

[talaniman]

For now, do nothing, just be polite and respectful, as she may just be a nut who acts weird. Why make waves?

[mowzie91]

Mummy's little boy. That is how it is with the majority of guys and their mothers. He is her baby still and she probably feels like you are trying to take him away from her (which if you are serious you may end up doing in the future with marriage etc) You have to be careful in this area though, you can't say anything to him about his mother or he will get overly defensive. For now I would suggest just getting on with it and ignoring her (however annoying it is, and believe me, I know) maybe try to form more of a bond with her yourself and the closer you become to her the less she may baby him in front of you.

[emma1040]

His mom thinks your taking him away from her because he loves his mommy because he's a mommys boy and you can tell just say I really love your son and hopefully I see a futer for us together but do not make him pick!

[mmresd]

I like it when my mother baby's me... and a girlfriend needs to get along with my mother, because I am her baby. So play nice and earn her respect.