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tan345 · Oct 29, 2011, 07:11 AM

I have known this boy for two months now and we accidentally met and we started going out each week.we are always talking cheerfully ,joking all the time ,he is always teasing me .we hug every time we meet.one night he invited me to watch movies just the two of us ,we cooked ,ate and then when we started to watch a movie(we always watch movies hugged) he kissed me for the first time ,the next day when he was sending me home we kissed again .we met the next day ,but here were a lot of other people and nothing happened.we met after 3 days and he was teasing me ,he said some things that actually made me feel bad and when saying goodbye he didn't kiss me again ,just hugged me,like he always does.I didn't wrote to him for couple of days and eventually he wrote to me on Facebook,but we hadn't talked about that kiss at all,like it never happened. The last time we met we were also joking and teasing also in a friendly way,but I want to know why he doesn't kiss me or he never asks anything .I am worried if he likes me ,he is not so shy ,talks a lot ,but he has recently broken up with his girlfriend for 3 years and he said that he feels good being single.but all his actions are saying otherwise.I don't know what to do ,confessing my feeling may scare him ,but I really want to know does he wants to be friends or more than that ?

AshleyShyrell · Oct 29, 2011, 05:08 PM

The best way to know what he feels is to ask him. I know its embarrassing, and awkward but that is the only way you are going to get a definite answer. Let him know how you feel, and ask him if he feels the same. Good Luck!

tan345 · Nov 5, 2011, 01:04 AM

I was told that he is still seeing his ex-girlfriend and they hugged ,also the colleagues (girls) were flirting with him and now he thinks he is a playboy or something .he hasn't written to me lately and I think he has been using me ,I want to avenge him .how to do it right ?

0rphan · Nov 26, 2011, 01:25 PM

Hi Tan345,

You say he recently broke up with his girlfriend of 3 years,that is a long time to be with one person.
I suspect that when he kissed you it may have brought back many memories of his ex,which made him remember her.I think this is why he has kind of stepped back from you,and now only gives you huggs.He has to be given time to get over his last relationship,otherwise you will be just a rebound,which is not good.

Although he says that it is good to be single and that he is enjoying himself, I am sure that is not the case - what else can he say!

There will be many things that remind him of her,not to mention all the things that they must have done together,also the places that they would have been to.

If you really like him,you need to give him time, not take revenge where no one wins.
Stay close, be his friend for now,help him recover,hopefully when that happens you and he will have your chance.