[alison89]

I dated my now husband for ^ months before matting him. Rite before we got married he cheated on me and swore it was the worst mistake and would do everything to prove he would never do it again not only that he has a nhorrible porn addiction that I have made a huge issue and he has gotten better with it although I know he still looks at it on his phone. I resent him for cheating and for the porn and I'm not happy like I shouod be. He has shown me he's faithful but that doesn't seem to be enough for me. He's home every night and never goes out with friends because he has none and its always been that way. I have never cheated on him and don't pan to I just want to know will he cheat again and since he loves porn will I ever be enough for him?

[Kahani Punjab]

Alison89,

Welcome to you on this beautiful site, first!

No, he will NOT cheat you, if you ask me. He has after all 'sworn', even as some people fail to keep the word, but all the five fingers are not same, remember. I know many people, who have cheated their partners before marriage, but have carried/kept the 'committed' relationship. Moreover, seeing porn is neither bad, nor a guarantee of a good/bad person. Moreover, if he says he has left it, you should believe him, as by not believing you are yourself losing your faith (in him), as you need to build the faith, and prove to him, that you do, which will foster him to dance to your tunes, or rather OBEY you, even as its nothing like dancing in such a relationship, but mututal faith and understanding are the pillars/foundation of such an alliance (i.e. matrimonial). You should love him, show your love, be intimate him, share your feelings, ask him about him and do the things he finds pleasing. Get the garments for him, let him gift you something, on occasions etc. Get a new haircut to surprise him, and this should suit you, no doubt, but should be liked by your life partner. But, never DOUBT, and never commit the mistake of making him feel, at least, that you do.

I presume you got the point!