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    modernromance09 Posts: 93, Reputation: -1
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    Oct 12, 2011, 12:00 AM
    Only interested in older men
    I've come to seek advice on what to do about this. I am ONLY interested in older men. I'm 21 years old, female, and only like men who are at least five years older than me. I have been like this ever since I was young. When I was 18 I dated people between the ages of 24-25. I know that most people don't agree with this and I was just wondering if there was a reason I like older men and if it is wrong. Normally I don't need others approval with anything but I'm just very curious if this is normal or not.
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    Oct 12, 2011, 04:43 AM
    I wouldn't say there's anything wrong with you honey.

    I wouldn't date someone younger, or shorter. We all have our preferences!

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    Oct 15, 2011, 04:47 PM
    I don't think eny thing is rong its what you like and if other people don't like it than they need to get over it
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    Oct 15, 2011, 04:56 PM
    This is actually very common, esp at your age. The fact is, that many men are still boys at 21 and not mature.

    Also what are the interests and if you are 21, men who are 24 or 25, most likely will be more settled, started on a career and hopefully more $$ secure.

    But to be honest 4 or 5 years ( OK while older) is far from considered much older, If you were dating men 10 or 15 years older, that is a older man.
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    Oct 27, 2011, 06:32 AM
    I don't believe that age difference makes someone an "older man." When I was in my early 20's I dated a man in his 50s. That's an older man.

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