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    RetardBuggsy Posts: 14, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 20, 2011, 08:37 AM
    Friendship Problems..?
    How can I control my anger at one of my friends when there trying 2 get my Bf off me without punching them in the face..?
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    redhed35 Posts: 4,221, Reputation: 1910
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    Aug 20, 2011, 10:26 AM
    Has it occurred to you that your boyfriend is not a possession, that he chooses to be with you and not your 'friends'?

    If he's playing games dump him, if he's loving the attention and giving you cause for upset, dump him, if you don't trust him, dump him.

    As for your friends, maybe its time to get some new ones.

    Your own self confidence and self esteem should not be wrapped up in a boy, you should not have to fight for him (physically), and frankly I would not bother any other way either.

    Control your anger or get help to control your anger before it results in a law suit or someone (maybe you!) getting a hiding for even threatening to punch someone else, if this gets out of control with gossip, rumours and you losing the head it could get really nasty.

    Keep your cool, dump the friend, trust your boyfriend or dump him... do you really need this hassel and grief?
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    mmresd Posts: 2,002, Reputation: 553
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    Aug 24, 2011, 06:46 PM
    You control it internally, find out what is wrong and come up with a solution to fix it. It doesn't matter what anyone is trying to do to your boyfriend, if he chooses to go with someone else then that choice was his not anyone else's. Punching someone in the face will only get you in trouble, and it will not solve anything. Also, acting this insecure about yourself and putting your boyfriend on the pedestle you have made the choice to put him in will only hurt yourself in his eyes. You are devaluing yourself to the rest of the world, keep your head up, it is a GIFT your you to be with your boyfriend to him, not the other way aronud. Value yourself and don't care so much for what other people around you are doing, as long as you what you are doing is right, then things should fall into place, now if this relationship doesn't, then it just wasn't meant to be.

    Good Luck,
    Javi

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