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    ChloeAnne Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 13, 2009, 02:48 PM
    Friendship Problems
    :confused:I think im loosing my best friend....
    Her name is dionne
    we always used 2 go to town together and nw she has just put me to one side and started hanging around with my STEP sister !!!!:mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:
    she makes me MAD!!!!!
    PLEASE HELP ME
    ANSWER THIS PLEASE!!!!
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    Apr 13, 2009, 03:23 PM

    Unfortunately that often happens in friendships. It seems more so with girls going from the 6th grade to the 7th or 8th going to 9th.
    If she feels the need to move on there isn't much you can do. You can ask her what happened to your friendship that she has no time for you any more, but if you make a fuss or ask in a way that makes her feel bad or makes her feel like you are clingy then its better just to let it go.
    You might have to find new friends. Just have a friend to friend talk with her and see what she says.
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    Apr 13, 2009, 05:57 PM

    It seems like a growing-up issue.
    How old are you?

    It just seems that she thinks she is more compatible with your stepsister than you. Good friendships don't usually disappear, but they do fade. It seems you are just moving past each other (or at least she is getting past you). You can keep her as your friend, but if she isn't going to be your best friend, you shouldn't be hers. If she doesn't value enough as a friend to keep you her best, then maybe she thinks it's time to make new friends, and you can find someone new to be your best friend. Moving on is hard, but everyone goes through it, and it will be easier than you think.

    However, if you are content on making it work, talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel and she may come around.


    PS: For future reference, pink isn't the easiest color to read. It is preferred if you post here in black only.
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    Apr 14, 2009, 06:06 PM

    Well it seems like your in the ages 13-15 I'm 15 kind of going threw the same thing I think the best thing to do is talk to her about it and if she don't care about what you have to say than I think you need to just stop wasting your time on her she don't care than why should you

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