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    IshaTricia Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 14, 2011, 02:46 PM
    Boys never texting first?
    What does it mean if your friend, maybe soon to be boyfriend, never texts you first?

    How do you really know if a guy is using you?



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    Aug 14, 2011, 03:13 PM
    I believe it would be easier if you described the situation, and people could go based on that. However, usually, if you have a feeling you're being played, you should seriously rethink a relationship with that person. Good relationships are based on trust.

    He could be shy.. Or uninterested..
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    Aug 14, 2011, 03:42 PM

    Maybe he prefers to speak to you in person rather then using an informal method of communication.

    This isn't a bad thing. In fact, I commend him for it. Texting is ruining human relationships in my opinion.
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    Aug 14, 2011, 04:18 PM
    Friendly tip for posting on this site: Please do not use chat speak. It is against site rules. It can result in your threads being closed and/or your posts being deleted.
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    Aug 18, 2011, 06:11 PM
    I wouldn't expect him to text you first, since he wasn't doing it before. If you feel used, you probably are.
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