[sweetheart 1]

What would you do if your dad took 700 dollars from your mom. My dad did and I don't live with him. And I don't talk to him any more what should I do to tell him I'm getting married

[sweetheart 1]

My dad took 700 dollars from my mom. And now I leave with my mom and my fiancé. How should I tell my dad that I'm getting married and I don't even talk to him

[sweetheart 1]

Me and my fiancé been in love for years and now we are getting married we don't know how to tell his dad and his side if the family. But we been buying stuff for the wedding my whole side of the family know s we are get married but his side don't yet. How should we tell them?

[joypulv]

Your mother has to handle what ever goes on between them.
You 'handle' telling your dad by telling him. You aren't even 18 yet, so lots of luck.
I have to say from reading your other posts that I'm a bit worried about your maturity and knowledge and readiness for marriage.

[joypulv]

Is this the same 'sweetheart1' who just a minute ago asked twice about how to handle telling your dad?
How is it that your entire side of the family knows but your not your dad?
Because he doesn't live with your mom? He's your father. I understand (from the $700 theft, alleged) that you don't love him, but he might even have to give you permission.

[joypulv]

You are too young to be getting married. You struggle with even writing a question. Communication between husband and wife is far more important when you are out on your own, having to pay rent and utilities and food and transportation, and couples start fighting, and she gets pregnant, and he can't make enough to support them, and all the romance and fun is out the window.

[cdad]

Tell him in a letter unless you want him (as traditional) to give you away. Call and talk to him. You don't need an excuse.

[sweetheart 1]

I have a job to

[sweetheart 1]

Not really. But I'm not young to get married. I have a job and support myself

[Wondergirl]

How old are you? Did you finish high school?

[joypulv]

When the posts were merged, the age of OP (17) was lost.

[dontknownuthin]

You said that you live with your mother and fiancé, then said you support yourself. Hmmm - not really. Your writing is not a good indication of your level of education. Focus on learning more and maturing, then think about marriage in your mid to late twenties.

You shouldn't be involved in your parent's disputes. It's a little immature to write your father off over $700 as well.

I agree with those who have stated you do not appear ready for marriage.

Incidentally, you needn't post a question over and over - once is enough.

[Fr_Chuck]

Yes I will have to agree

1. the money is your moms issue with your dad,
2. I will assume you have other non addressed issues with him
3. you communicate poorly for someone your age, at least here,
4. I would worry on your level to be married.

Sorry not what you want to hear but perhaps it may make you think

[sweetheart 1]

I do support myself. I pay my bills. Good bye

[Fr_Chuck]

Time to think and act grown up if you are getting married, Forget anything else, about who owes who money, it is not your money.