[jwec]

I really need to talk to someone serious about this! But I feel like I can't trust anybody! Ok this year was my senior year and everything is over. School and my dance recital both I have been to for 12 years is done! Over! I met this girl last year who is like the most AMAZING girl I've ever met! Let me write you a list of things that has happened between me and her!

1.) Were both left handed
2.) We both love owls
3.) Her best friend added me on Facebook last year
4.) We had to pick names out of a hat for secret santa gift exchange and this year and last year she got my name!

5.) She made me an ECHO friendly gift for my birthday this year
6.) She is very rebellious which I love about her and she likes to be herself
7.) Her dad listens to Phantom of the Opera (which is my favorite musical)
8.) I make movies and she always supports me in it
9.) We both love film score music

There is plenty more but that's all I could think for now. Anyway this girl is so AMAZING anf I adore her to the core! Im feeling so much for her like I never felt like this towatds anybody before ever! But she also doesn't like texting and a few times when I text her, her response is very low key and simple. So I could understand that but still it kind of hurts. She's leaving for Boston for 8 days because her sister is in a dance competition and of course that's going to be hell for me because she won't be on Facebook or anything. I invited her and her sister to my graduation party later this month but I heard her saying last year that she hates going to parties so I have no idea if she's coming or not. Maybe she doesn't want to feel awkward or anything. Im going to be really depressed if she doesn't come but she is the only person I want to come the most so I don't know. I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable or anything. But were planning on seeing Harry Potter together at the end of the month so that should be exciting! I want to tell her so bad how I feel but I don't want anything to be ruined like our friendship etc. She always seems busy with things and she has soccer in the summer so it's hard to plan a day with her.

HONESTLY, I think she likes me but I think she never had a boyfriend before and she probably feels nervous when I'm around because she likes me and that's why she never texts me because she's nervous. How do I make her feel like I'm the best thing in the world for her? If we both feel the same way, I want to make her feel like she can tell me anything and not get nevous or feel awkward? You need to understand. This girl is the only girl I have ever meet, that I love for who she is! She's gorgeous and stunning of course! But we both love and have the same interests for a lot of things!! PLEASE HELP!!

[amicon]

The only person who can tell you how she feels is her.

Unless you ask her you might never know.

My feeling is that she's just being friendly-and I know that if I like someone and they text me I text them back.

I would also take time out from my busy schedule and be available for outings if I were interested.

[talaniman]

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...lp-583256.html

What do you do when you meet a female that changes your very brain chemistry? Take your time and get to know her as you build your own life with friends and activities that make you happy.

Staying balanced with the important things in your life will keep the proper perspective on all these emotions, as you slowly learn more about this stranger that's making your liver quiver.

It's a very human thing, ATTRACTION, and there is no hurry to get your life wrapped up in each other before you're ready.

Enjoy the process.

[Bittertruth]

Go out and tell her you love her. She might not like you back, who knows? NOT YOU so go find out. Stop thinking about it over and over again and just do it make your mouth say it regardless of how scared you are. If she denys well then you can move on, it might be hard in the beginning but you know you'll move on sooner or later. If she says yes then Life is Great. Rite now life sucks because your in a confusing situation which is killing you from the inside. So just do it, live through the horror until you move on or have the girl of your dreams. Either way its better then this confusion and you should know that. JUST DO IT!