[jmmoore]

I'm 15. It's kind of awkward since I'm so young but I don't date people that often. My mind tricks me constantly and I'll have interest in someone one second, and then wonder what I was thinking another. When I find someone that I actually like and have no doubt whatsoever about our relationship, then I go after them.

I met someone awesome about a year ago. If you read all those articles and romance novels or listen to people when they talk about soulmates, that's how I felt. I felt like I wanted to be with her forever ,which is a first time for me, and I never wanted to let her go and as far as she said, it was like she felt the same way. We dated for about 8 months, and in the last month, we were arguing the whole time. She said I'd hurt her by becoming the person I am now, but I honestly can't feel any change. We've been apart for barely a month, and I've tried to get over her. I've talked to other girls, but my ex set a standard that is almost impossible to be matched. Other people want to date me but I'm afraid I'll hurt them if I do, because I could go straight back to her. I've also tried to get over her by not talking to her, but now that cross country country conditioning has started, I have to see her everyday. She positions her entire body away from me and then texts me when I leave saying "sorry" and then doesn't text back. I don't know what to do with her, or how to get over her, because I think of her everyday, all-day.

[amicon]

You keep busy-doing things you enjoy and ignore her as best you can when you have to see her.

Don't date anyone until you're over the ex-as you will be-just give it time.

[redhed35]

What a load of crap, she dumped you because you were not the person you were, your 15!. of course your going to change and mature, can you imagine your parents behaving like 15 year olds, same as your friends! Can you imagine that torture...

Of course your going to change.
She just did not want to be with you any more,OK, so now that's straightened out, stop making contact with her, just ignore her at training, no contact.

And just to end, your mind is not playing tricks on you, what's happening is perfectly fine, your young your still finding out about the world and relationships.

[jmmoore]

Thanks, all of you.
Now I found out that she wants to get back together now... Am I crazy for considering it?