
Originally Posted by
sbetty1
M My question is will we qualify for any financial assistance other than food stamps or medicaid to help with caring for these children (money for school fees, sports, clothing, etc....)
You have to go to the Court .There is a term "Kinship care" and some states and counties have Kinship Support Services Programs.
The main circumstance is the child to be placed in foster care .A relative who is caring for a child who is eligible for federal foster care receives a foster care payment each month.A relative who is caring for a child who is not eligible for federal foster care receives a welfare payment for the child./and this may mean food stamps or medicaid only /

Originally Posted by
sbetty1
.The document was notarized and is legal.
No way! Only a court order may grant you guardianship/kinship care.

Originally Posted by
Anaicka
many jurisdictions will order the parents to pay you child support.
Agree!
We do not know where the OP is located but here is one example:
Child Support requirements have to be met for the caregiver relative to be approved for Kinship Care. The caregiver relative caregiver is required to cooperate with Child Support staff to pursue child support from the parents provided that a good cause exception does not exist per 922 KAR 2:006, Section 16
If the relative caregiver is unwilling to pursue child support or sign the KC-01, Statement of Rights and Responsibilities, the caregiver relative
is not to be considered for the Kinship Care Program. If the caregiver relative fails to cooperate with Child Support staff after approval, the Kinship Care funds are reduced by 25%.