[b_lovey]

Okay so recently my ex has been messaging me on Facebook and talking to me a little. The conversations are usually pretty simple & boring but recently he's been acting different. He asked me why we never talk anymore & I told him it was because I never see him anymore so I don't really get a chance to and he said that that didn't matter and that we should talk more--as friends I assumed.

After our little conversation I got on formspring & I had a "<3" in my inbox so I answered it and shrugged it off but, then I started thinking about it and I started to get a little paranoid. When me and my ex we're dating I made his formspring for him because he didn't know how so, I knew his password and stuff. I know I shouldn't have done it but, I checked his formspring to see if he wrote it and he did.. I know I shouldn't think much of it because it is just a heart.. but why would he put it anonymously?

I don't understand why he'd do that? I asked a few friends and they said he might be trying to mess with me but, how would he even know that I knew it was him? It doesn't make sense for him to mess with me like that if he's being anonymous?-The next day I got on Facebook and posted my status that I was going out to the mall for the day and when I posted that he was online. I show up at the mall and start walking around and guess who I see? He walks right past my sister and myself and he smiles at me sooo big, like my sister said "he was eating me with his smile"? I don't know, my sister's strange. I just think it's weird how we both got there at like the same time.

The next day we had school and it was the end of the day and I had to use the restroom so I run off the bus and into the school & there he is like right when I open the door he was getting ready to walk out & he was seriously staring at me the whole time so I smile really quick at him then I run to the bathroom haha.

I get on Facebook later on that day and he IM's me and asks why I ignored him in the hallway at the end of the day & we got into a little argument about how I didn't ignore him & how I smiled at him & he didn't smile back & then he randomly asks me why I'm so shy around him and I explained to him that it was most likely because we don't have any classes together anymore and we never really talk either and he asks me "would you ever talk to me again? please be honest, I just want to know" and I say "as friends?" and he said "as anything...just be honest" and I said "well I'm talking to you right now, aren't I?" and he said "Ok smartass.. :P" and I said "well, ha yeahh I guess I would." and he IM'd back "awhh :)" and I really didn't know what to say to that so I just put a smiley face, then we ended up talking a little longer till I fell asleep.

Then today he walked past me in the hallway & pushed me a little, like not a shove but a little push & I turned around to look & see if it was him & he was looking at me in the corner of his eye & I run up & push him back then run off haha.. I know this sounds dumb but what is he doing? Is he just playing me and trying to make me look stupid or do you think he actually genuinely might want me back? Please no meannnn stuff about how I always have boy problems. I really just need an outsider's opinion. Thank you!

[amicon]

Nobody can tell you what he wants-to find that out,you need to ask him.

I would say though,that people are exes for a reason and considering your past history with this guy,I'd say just let it go.

At 17,or have you had a birthday since your last thread? there are plenty more relationships to explore.

[talaniman]

You get stuck on exes a lot don't you, and take their actions much to seriously.

Like you said in your other thread you don't need to stress. Don't. Go about your own business. Have fun, and moving on doesn't have to be with another guy, it could be doing different things with friends that you enjoy.

When you post your day to day schedule on face book or any social network, anybody can follow you, or keep tabs on you. Even exes who have nothing better to do but get some attention from you. That's doesn't mean commitment, or caring for that matter, just in need of attention, or bored.