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    Voguette Posts: 9, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 24, 2009, 10:09 AM
    Boy Troubles
    Hey

    So here's my problem

    I've kind of fallen for this boy in my class, I mean he's amazing, funny, cute as and really really nice. Here's the problematic part, I'm a boy too. I mean I'm bisexual, and in the closet but I think he might be too, when we were talking the other day he seems more... open to the idea than other people.

    Is there anything I can do to find out anymore about his sexuality, and the way he feels about me.

    HELP ME DIG A LITTLE DEEPER :)

    Thanks
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    Mar 24, 2009, 11:24 AM
    I would just see if he is open to friendship, and keep your business to yourself, just in case your feelings have thrown your judgment off, about his open mindedness, or his sexuality.

    Your in the closet for a reason, I assume. How old are you both?
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    Mar 24, 2009, 12:06 PM

    We're 15 almost 16 :)
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    Mar 24, 2009, 12:12 PM

    Just see if there is a friendship. Gay, bi, or straight, the attractions will be many, but acting on them is best done after some very careful thoughts, and investigation to get facts.

    Acting on impulse, and feelings, is a recipe for disaster.
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    Mar 24, 2009, 12:22 PM

    We are GOOD Friends already :)
    Like we hang out a lot, and we're always together in school
    I'm wondering if there's a like under the rader way of finding out if he's like that?
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    Mar 24, 2009, 12:36 PM

    Hi Voguette,

    Perhaps you can play 'dumb'. What I mean is if there is an attractive girl that you both know in your class, ask him what he thinks of her. Sort of like 'guy talk'. This may give you some insight as to whether he is into girls or not. Have you ever tried this?
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    Mar 24, 2009, 12:46 PM
    Honestly, what I'd do is simply ask "Do you like boys?" It'll be difficult. I've been in that kind of situation before and I know that it got my heart racing like a racecar in first place. It's so worth it though. If you really think he is it'll be easier to ask, if you're really not sure and it turns out he's not it might be akward for a moment but there are several ways to cover up. "Somebody told me you were, just had to know." For example. If you don't like that just use your imagination. Good luck ;)

    -Mouse
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    Mar 25, 2009, 08:19 AM

    Kay
    I'm going to try your tip tomorrow Mouse, the 26th

    Thanks very much for the help

    I'm bricking it but I'll keep you posted :):S
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