[allison10]

Me an my boyfriend been together for 4 years now we where living together for 3 years. Everything was awesome we would have sex at least 2 days a week. But a year ago he decided to move out. His reason was because he needed his space I never really understood why he moved out, but we would still have sex but after a couple of months I found out I was pregnant I told him and since then we haven't been intimate I told him is it because I'm pregnant he says no. he recently told me it was because he no longer sees me as a girlfriend but as a sister.. I'm 5 months pregnant with his child what does this mean?

[CravenMorhead]

Nothing good I fear.

My take on it is that he is fearful of commitment. He moved out because things were getting too serious and he still wanted to do some living. I think he emotionally detached himself from you but continued to have sex with you because he could and you didn't say no.

I don't envy the situation you are in. Get a good lawyer, you might need it for child support.

[Cat1864]

Allison, how old are both of you?

While some men do have various issues being intimate with their pregnant partner, it sounds more like he was already distancing himself from the relationship even before the pregnancy occurred.

Is he supporting you through the pregnancy? Is he making plans for after the baby is born?

[sawsall02]

This is why people should wait on sex until marriage. He does not love you! You should date, fall in love, get married, have kids, in this order. He need's to man-up to his responseabilities and marry you now! Sorry, but I'm very traditional.