
Originally Posted by
peace82
Its not that i am into this relation as i can't find anyone else.We both love each other.and also not that am unhappy. Its only the circumstances which are forcing me to think about another relation.but i really dont want to leave him. I have spoken to him many times about all this but there is nothing more that he can do considering his circumstances also.Yeah it is going to be very tough to stay with his mother. but what is my mistake? Only that we love each other?Isnt it injustice?
Here are your words: "can't think of any other relation as have some physical problem so dont know whether will be able to find anyone." That's what I answered. I took this to mean that you didn't think you could find another relationship because you have physical problems. Would you explain to me what you meant so I understand how I misunderstood you?
You use words like "willing" to marry you. He should want to marry you.
Your mistake? Staying in a relationship that makes you so unhappy that you post on a public board, asking advice. You say you love him. I'm not so sure the feeling is mutual - thus your use of the word "willing."
Loving someone is never a mistake. Even if it doesn't work out you have some good memories. Injustice? Where is the injustice?
You intend to live with a woman who dislikes you? Sorry, but that is a very bad way to go into a relationship, let alone a marriage.
Your boyfriend apparently can't or won't change things. That alone would make me unhappy.