Want to be with him but so many obstacles on our path. What to do?
I love a guy. Iam 28 and he is 30.we have been in relation for 4 years. Initially he had not told his parents about us.my parents know everything and they are ready for our relation.one year back he told his parents about us and they opposed because of caste difference. Till now they are not agreeing. His mother is a heart patient.twice she stopped her medicines to pressurise him to leave me and was admitted.even his sisters are against us. He is busy with his higher studies for which he has taken lot of money from his parents. Now he is stuck between his mother and our relation and the promises made to my parents.plus his studies are there for one and half year more. Even then he is willing to marry me. But he is not promising any date or any plan.I trust in him and want to marry him. We share a very good relation. But now the problem is I am working on a temporary basis with minimal salary. I can't commit to a good job because he stays in a different city and so I can't commit to a fixed job.also most of the time am at home worrying about this and one day if he does not call me all negative thoughts start in my head.I too am stuck up as I can't force him as he is studying and also can't imagine to wait for 1 1/2 year. It's a long time.am already into depression seeking therapy.cant think of any other relation as have some physical problem so don't know whether will be able to find anyone.please help. What will I do?