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    rawrr108 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 16, 2011, 06:04 AM
    My ex and best friend are dating... help.
    Me and this girl dated, for 3months. I told her I needed time... everything was OK b/t us, we still talked and everything. The next week my BEST friend of all time, said that they were dating. I can't sleep/eat/i cry/panicattacks/ and etc. pleaaseee helpp me. And they also hid it from me for 2weeks.
    I told my friend how I was relly disapointed, and I might leave because I cnt take the pain. Help please..!
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    Apr 16, 2011, 07:06 AM

    You no longer are dating her. So what is the problem? She is now free to date whoever she wants. You sound like a controlling person. Maybe you need some professional elp.
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    Apr 17, 2011, 12:57 PM

    How old are you? Ever hear the old saying, "you snooze you lose"? That's what happened, she was ready, you were not so she found someone else.

    I don't know what you needed time for but, she was never really yours to begin with, so be glad you found out about the people that you counted on the most, were not the good people you thought they were.

    It's a hard lesson to go through, but one you obviously needed to learn. In time, you will see that.
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    May 1, 2011, 12:12 PM
    I have been there!
    And to be honest with the only thing that would help U and make the pain go away is "they break up" or U having a new girlfriend !
    I think that u should talk to your best friend and ask him to break up with her !
    Really I mean tell him that it hurts u and if he was a good friend and loves u he would do it and break up with her !
    Sarah

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