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    blueskiesinflorida Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 22, 2007, 09:39 AM
    Its falling apart but still together I want to win him back
    I have been with my fiancée for 2 years and here lately he is growing apart from me. He stayed out all weekend. He finally came home and didn't want to be close to me. He said he still loved me and he said we may be able to work it out. He said my attitude sucks here lately. And I just want to be able to win him back, is there anything I should do? I have been giving him his space and let him do things as he claimed I wouldn't do. I love him very much, and I don't want to lose him. Anyone got any advice, would it still work out or is it over?:(
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Jan 22, 2007, 11:21 AM
    It takes two people who want the same thing to make a relationship work. If this is not happening, take time to back away and try to re-evaluate the relationship and see if its worth it or not to continue. Are you putting in more than your partner, or is he taking but not giving? You need to be able to answer this honestly and realistically.
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    Jan 22, 2007, 07:03 PM
    Yes, Tal got it absolutely right. It does take two to make it work. But, you say you want to win him back but what is it that you were doing or not doing that he says sucks?
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    Jan 22, 2007, 07:29 PM
    Some honest and open communication where you both LISTEN to each other without judging or getting mad would be a good start!

    It may be tough to hear what he has to say but it is better to find out from him then in the many other ways you can possibly find out by in the future.

    Sorry you are feeling this way and I really do hope it works out!

    Please stick around and continue to to post your questions and thoughts. There a lots of people who will have a lot more to add I dare say!

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