[Chickenmaster]

Hello. I've been having sex with this one girl. This is the 1st girl I've been having sex with and she is a wonderful girl to me. The thing is, I don't feel anything while have sex. I do have condom on and I still don't feel a single thing. Even when she does give me head (Though she is not very good at it at all) because of that, I never . The pill and the female condom thing is a no. So I'm wondering if I'm screwed for life because of too much jerking off or another thing or if there is something I can do to get it back. I was try different condoms but that too still isn't work. I am pretty relaxed and stuff and yeah, it just bothers me. Thanks

[lil_mandy]

You should try and see if the foreplay idea works for you and your girlfriend.

It could satify you better depending on how your girl feels about it , you could please her and vice versa . Time on each other physically could allow to feel better ( rather than strangely) during sex... Many guys or that by foreplay stimuli ( i.e. get your girlfriend to maturbate you ( jerk you off ) see if that helps you to "perform" better that may help.

Don't worry though it will happen , but it keeps happening and you feel insecure about it , go to a doctor or health specialist to seek better advice if you still feel its an issue .

Hope that helps