Hello. I've been having sex with this one girl. This is the 1st girl I've been having sex with and she is a wonderful girl to me. The thing is, I don't feel anything while have sex. I do have condom on and I still don't feel a single thing. Even when she does give me head (Though she is not very good at it at all) because of that, I never . The pill and the female condom thing is a no. So I'm wondering if I'm screwed for life because of too much jerking off or another thing or if there is something I can do to get it back. I was try different condoms but that too still isn't work. I am pretty relaxed and stuff and yeah, it just bothers me. Thanks

You should try and see if the foreplay idea works for you and your girlfriend.

It could satify you better depending on how your girl feels about it , you could please her and vice versa . Time on each other physically could allow to feel better ( rather than strangely) during sex... Many guys or that by foreplay stimuli ( i.e. get your girlfriend to maturbate you ( jerk you off ) see if that helps you to "perform" better that may help.

Don't worry though it will happen , but it keeps happening and you feel insecure about it , go to a doctor or health specialist to seek better advice if you still feel its an issue .

Hope that helps