[dormant123]

I like this one girl whom I'm great friends with that's been going out with someone else for a whole year. I didn't like her until last November after she started hanging out with me after school and saw that she's really cool. I found out that her boyfriend broke up with her and I was going to ask her out because she was flirting with me. But, then I learned they were back together about 3 weeks later... She stopped talking with me when we are going to class and it seemed like she forgot about me. Starting about a few weeks ago she started to look at me during class and sort of did these flirtatious expressions. And then she started to talk to me again and hanging out with me. So the other day she's walking into the room and she looks at me and I don't even remember what caused this kid to ask, "do u have a boyfriend"... But he did, and she said "kinda," and starts to walk off. She walks towards me and I ask, jokingly "what does kinda mean? I thought you had a boyfriend." She tells me that they broke up a couple weeks ago. Does anybody know what she meant by that? And also, should o ask her out or is this one big coincidence?

[trikstar12]

Not to be harsh or judgemental, but dude you're obvously her second choice. I mean she only talks to you when her and her boyfreind breaks up. If I were you give her some time to sort it out with her boyfreind. Then when everything's kind of going smooth ask her out. But dude don't take relationships too serious (for now) because trust me in the end of this reltaionship the one to get hurt is the one who takes it too serious. I mean were young we need to enjoy our lives.

p.s if she dumps you or says no, don't get to sad. Because there's plenty of girls out there that you haven't met. For now, just enjoy your life because you're young and life's short. So enjoy while you can.

[imdepressed15]

I think she likes u and I think u should ask her out about give her some time to sort everything out before she gets in another relationship.