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    Mar 2, 2011, 11:31 PM
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    I am a mother of three kids, my kids father and I were together for 6 years. About 3 years into the relationship he started using pills, like adderal and vicodin. He then became abusive to a point I was scared for my own and my kids life. I left after 6 years. He then started using meth, after about 6 months of that he lost his job, his house, his family and has no contact with his kids. He recently got caught and lost his vehicle. Now he is trying to quite but will not seek treatment he says he don't need it. He calls me and blames all his problems on me and is very mean and angry all the time. This is hard for me to watch him go through this and I don't know what to do. This man was once the love of my life the one I seen myself with forever now he is a drug addict and I don't know how to help him. I cry for my children sake. And I reach out to his family to help as they do but he says he wants me to come get him and stuff but I am scared of him. What can I do to get him help? How can I help him through this? He also has recently extracted himself from everything just stays in his room all day and sleeps don't shower and don't go any where not even his court date. I hate to say but at times I feel it is a lost cause. But, I know that good man he once was is still in there just don't know how to get him treatment or help when he denys he needs it? Please help

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