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    Feb 20, 2011, 09:11 PM
    Im Not Tough
    Hey last year I was in the 7th grade and I was really tough,physically and mentally but its like a new year a new me.Last week at school I got teased and joked on,but I know for a fact I'm not ugly.It hurted my feelings a whole lot to the point when I even cried.Well some of the tears was because of my feeling but most of them were from anger. In my point of view it feels like she chumped me down. She's more athletic than I am and she weighs a little more than me.. I thought about saying something back to her at school next week and I want to know is that a good descion... And can someone also help me grow tougher in ways like fightting back tears and not caring what others say about me..
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    Feb 20, 2011, 09:55 PM

    Are you male or female? Either way, your hormones are flying around all over the place inside you, so that's why the ups and downs with emotions.

    No, don't say anything back to her next week. Behave yourself and be the stronger person.

    First you have to like yourself. Do you? Do you like who you are?
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    Feb 21, 2011, 11:28 AM
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    Im a female and Yes I love who I am.. And lots of others to. I get several compliments..
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    Feb 21, 2011, 11:43 AM

    Can you not talk back to her? Maybe shock her socks off by actually being nice to her, or at least treat her like anyone else?

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