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    clownery123 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 19, 2011, 06:23 PM
    How long should I give her to get back to me before I can say she's not interested?
    I waited a day and half to call a girl after our first date, and ended up leaving a voice mail. On the date we had blast. During the conversation she was grabbing my arm, and we were laughing. There were no silences and the conversation just kept flowing. Once we left the bar she wanted to drive me to my car. When we got to my car she then wanted to drive it; as she though it was "pretty." ha. So I let her, she drove it and then was shaking because she had so much fun.
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    Feb 20, 2011, 10:31 AM
    Ok, you called and had to leave a message, so I would say give it a few days - 3-4. If she still has not responded, give her the benefit of the doubt and call again and leave a text message with your number. Then the ball is in her court.

    She may not have credit on her phone to listen to the message, so this is why I say next time you do call also leave a text reiterating your number. Thus way you kind of know she had your number what ever the situation... Unless she lost her phone, then I'd say it was a rap... until you hopefully met her again :o)

    Good Luck.
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    Feb 20, 2011, 07:58 PM

    When you come up with something fun to do, call her. If she isn't available for whatever reason, call someone else. You do have someone else in mind for a fun date don't you?

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