Mine only cums fast when we have been fighting or feels insecure about our relationship. We were abstanate for five years before we had sex and he was the main one pushing that we wait till marriage. I also have no girlfriends, but lots of guys that are my friends (hell he's one of them). It means no catfights, but sometimes I have to kick the guys that try to hit on me(be it actual or percieved).
Now that we have sex, he has begun distrusting my other relationships. The stess makes him blow, literally. He says that its cause he's trying so hard to impress me that he ends up pushing himself over the edge. Usually he's very honest with me.
Or it might be stess, lack of exercise, or any number of things. If you came to this site, you've probably already read and tried using the PC workouts for dudes and the squeeze method, so the best advise that I have for you is be patient.
When I'm horny, I'm very direct. Even when I has abstante, I masterbated like every other day or more and my drive is just harder than my boyfriends. Almost nothing can stop me when I'm ready, but the same thing might not be able to be said about your dude or even you.
No one knows that he doesn't satify you like him and that kind of frustration will make his fuse shorter. Give yourself a workout before the actual sex and let him watch, but don't touch him. That way you have a head start. And blow it off, again, literally. BJ's before sex has worked wonders for us. They slow my boy down and gives him time to focus on me, my face and how much I love what I'm doing.
He says that he purposefully puts all his effort into not ******* so that he can watch me more.
So try to fix any insecurites in your relationship. Don't harrass the dude it will make it worse. And try to find ways to keep his mind off blowing to soon or how good you feel while at the same time cranking up his sex drive. Be selfish, but be sneaky. Male egos are huge and easy to explode ;)
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