[sarahtm]

I'm going to call this guy he likes me (well I think) and I like him (alot) but when ever were together or on the phone we always have an alkward silence. And I'm always thinking of what to say to breaak the silence
And there was a time we went on a date (twice) we had alkward silence and I never know what to say and I hate that.
Someone help me please
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[pmjlghrs]

I'm not sure what to tell you on how to break the silence, but if he doesn't know what to say, he's probably feeling the same you do.

[liongal]

Getting to know each other means asking q's, telling stories about things you've done etc, what are your dreams, thoughts on issues, plans for day, weeks, month, year... funny family stories etc. Try not to ask q's thatcan be answered with yes, no. if you do ask two q's in one. If it's you who clams up, try and picture him as a friend rather than this hot guy you fancy...

When your young, these things happen but as you both become more comfortable around each other this akward silence will stop...

[sam8988378]

Are you both shy with other people? Maybe a date where you can talk about what you are doing, like bowling. Maybe a double date with another couple you both know. There is also another, not so happy of a situation possible. While you both may be attracted to each other, you might have trouble conversing because you have little, if anything, in common. Hormones alone aren't enough of a reason to put time and effort into trying to create a relationship. If there is nothing else, it will fall apart. And it's always more painful when its gone on for awhile.