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noname10 · Jan 24, 2011, 08:28 PM

I recently met this girl which we have been seeing each other for 3 months. At the time we met I knew she had a boyfriend. Her boyfriend had some problems and had to leave the country and he told her to wait for her. Its been a year that she has waited until I came along. We got together a couple of times and spent hours everyday texting and speaking on the phone. We were so happy in love and talking about our future. Then one day she tells me she doesn't know if she still loves her ex and needs to see him to clear things out so she ends our relationship. What should I do? I have a feeling she will go back to him in the end. She says she likes me but can't be with me at the moment. Am confused. Do I still stand a chance? She is really the girl I want to grow old with.

ITstudent2006 · Jan 24, 2011, 08:53 PM

First off, she has a boyfriend and that should tell you something about her right there.

Second, it's been 3 months, you can't possibly know enough about her to determin she's who you want to grow old with.

Thirdly, she obviously didn't care for you like you did to hr or else she would have ended the relationship with her b/f.

My advice: Walk away!

talaniman · Jan 25, 2011, 05:57 AM

Her actions speak for her, she doesn't want you and she rather have the boyfriend. Buddy, count yourself lucky you dodged a bullet, and don't trip over a 3 month thing. You can do a lot better than her, trust me.

guitarteacher18 · Jan 25, 2011, 08:28 AM

I'd like to ask, how old are you?
And, its three months, I've been with my girlfriend since march-ish, so that's like 7 months, and I neither see it as a big deal or want to grow old with her, I do love her to death, couldn't imagine being without her, it would really bum me out if I lost her, but I wouldn't go as far to say I see myself growing old with her
Three months, cool, really it is, but also, no big deal, I reaaly reeaally don't want to be crushing your soul, or telling you anything that would hurt you to read, but she had a boyfriend, she did promise to wait and she did, and I'm going to throw out a crazy, hurtful, accusation, and I'm sorry for doing so, I really am, but maybe she kept you around because she missed her boyfriend and didn't want to be alone
But listen, if your as old as I think you are, like around high school age, correct me if I'm wrong, its no big deal, at all, your going to feel that you love a lot of girls in your life, you may even be with one for years and eventually have to break it off, but no one is actually meant for each other, they just work well together

I wish · Jan 25, 2011, 10:32 AM

If you really wanted her, what you can do is let her know how you feel and let her decide.

However, like the others have mentioned, her actions show us that she's no longer interested in you, nor are you her priority.

Even if she does come back to you, you would be her consolation prize, because she couldn't work things out with her boyfriend.

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