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    Lisiloo Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 16, 2011, 06:11 PM
    Really confused and depressed about life
    Just need to speak about the way I feel... I have a man who says he loves me everyday but I'm just not feeling it.. we can't talk openly to each other and it's leaving me frustrated and sad because I feel it's tearing us apart.. I have two teenage daughters tfrom a previous marriage whom live with us but they take me for granted too.. I feel more like a slave to all three of them and not a wife and mother that I want to be...
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    Jan 16, 2011, 06:50 PM

    You're trying to push your man into the role of counselor, and that's not where he belongs.

    I suggest you find a good counselor and start working on ways for you to find yourself and your own happiness. Your man and even your daughters might be invited in later for a few sessions of some family counseling, so you all can learn how to work together to make a happy home.

    Whaddya think?

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