[Mela1991]

My youngest daughter was born in 2008, when I found out I was pregnant I informed the father. He wanted nothing to do with the baby. I became ill during pregnancy, stopped working and had to get on assistance. Once my daughter was born, the county had me file a child support case. After a lot of time, paternity was finally determined and now the father is saying he wants to terminate his rights. Which is fine with me. Do we still need to go to court or just file the paperwork?

[JudyKayTee]

He can't "terminate" his rights - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/family...st-116098.html

[this8384]

Mela1991 does not find this helpful : she doesn't say why?

First of all, you are out-of-line. By signing up with this site, you agreed to rules which include using the rating system in a proper way. You can read them here:
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Second, because you are clearly far too lazy to bother clicking a link and reading the answer which was already given to you, I'll take the time to copy-and-paste what was inside of that link.

Signing Over rights-** READ FIRST **

This is a very frequently asked question here. And frequently answered. The following is a summary of the facts and covers most jurisidctions.

1) A bio parent cannot be forced to relinquish their rights, it has to be voluntary.
a) The only exceptions to this are where the bio parent cannot be found after a good faith effort to contact them or in cases where the bio parent represents a danger to the child.

2) Most areas make it difficult for a bio parent to relinquish their parental rights. Usually its allowed only to clear the way for adoption of the child.

3) Relinquishment of rights refers only to the right to have a say in how a child is raised.

4) Relinquishment of parental rights may or may not affect parental responsibility depending on local laws. The parent can still be held responsible for child support or it will be even harder to get a Termination of Parental Rights. A TPR is NOT going to be granted just to let the parent off the hook for support.

5) The only thing that allows ending responsibility is if the child is adopted, in which case the adoptive parents assume that responsibility.

Those are the facts and apply to almost all circumstances in almost all areas. There are several threads here that discuss this issue in greater depth. I would suggest reading them before posting a question.

On a personal note, I do not recommend relinquishing rights unless its to clear the way for adoption. A child deserves to know his parents, not matter how bad the person may have been. People can change.