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jemmasfriend · Jan 13, 2011, 07:09 AM

Me and my best friend talk a lot in school and we text each other a lot. And I asked her did she want 2 hang out sumtime on the weekend and she was like yes definitely! But it neva happened. And all da other times I asked her to hang out she said that she cnt cause she has 2 go sumwer with family. Or she sum other time. C so what is up. Does she nt like me enough to hang out with me or something? Y wnt she hang out with me. HELP like she always hangs out with these other people but nt me

smoothy · Jan 13, 2011, 07:22 AM

Maybe she's not a fan of chatspeak. I know I'm not.

And she isn't the friend you think she is. Its clear she likes them more than you.

Everyone you know isn't a friend by definition. And without a doubt... not a best friend as you call them. I would say they are people I know... I would hesitate to call them friends... and I would never call someone like that a BEST friend.

jemmasfriend · Jan 13, 2011, 07:33 AM

What you mean nt a fan of chat speak and I really want to hang out with her is there something I could do

smoothy · Jan 13, 2011, 07:46 AM

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wat u mean nt a fan of chat speak and i really wana hang out with her is ther something i could do

Seriously... read what you just said... did you ever attend an english class? I get a headache trying to figure out what you just said would be in english.

If I interpret that jibberish into what I assume it would be in the english language... what you should do is stop calling her a friend... because she isn't one... and find someone else to call a friend. Prefferably someone that actually likes you. Its clear this one doesn't.

THere is nothing else you "can do" about it. If she doesn't want to hang out with you... then YOU can't make her. Have you considered WHY she might not want to be around you? Do you speak like you wrote these questions and answers? If you do... thats your answer.

Would YOU like to be forced to "hang out" with the girl in class you can't stand? I don't think so. YOU can't make someone that doesn't want to hang out with you, hang out with you if they don't want to.

What you CAN do is be the sort of person people want to hang around with. And they are usually smart... well spoken, and confident.

I have a 7 year old Nephew in Italy who speaks english as a second language better than you do as an only language (based on this thread). Incidentally... I speak 4 and can read or understand 6.

Sorry, but that's how it is... we (as in most of us) judge you on how you present yourself... write and speak like that and we assume you aren't the sharpest pencil in the box.

And you would not pass a 2nd grade english class with that grammar and spelling.

Devorameira · Jan 13, 2011, 08:20 AM

If she's really your great friend, then you need to tell her how you feel.

Sounds as if you're still in school, so I'm assuming it's probably up to her parents to transport her back and forth. It's possible that she's truly had to do things with family and couldn't arrange meeting up. Mom or Dad may not have been available to transport her back and forth.

jemmasfriend · Jan 13, 2011, 11:42 AM

Um but she's in my class in skl and lives near me

jemmasfriend · Jan 13, 2011, 11:48 AM

I was just shortning down my words ;)

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Curlyben · Jan 13, 2011, 12:13 PM

jemmasfriend, LAST warning.
If you cannot have the common decency to act in a considerate manner then we do NOT want you as a member of this site.

The choice is yours.