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    lonelySC Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 3, 2011, 04:07 PM
    My boyfriend says don't call so much...
    So me and my BF are together 2.5 years. All of a sudden he says I can't call him at work because of a new nasty boss. I was fine with that when he told me that if he was on his cell at work, it may get him fired. According to his phone records, he calls people all day long at work.
    I don't understand... also, now he tells me not to call him all the time on his day off. He says that when I call, I really have nothing interesting to say. ( Hey, whatcha doing?)
    I only wanted to hear his voice. On top of all that, no xmas present and no new years kiss... HELP!! I need an outside opinion!
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    Jan 3, 2011, 04:10 PM

    Stop phoning and texting him. See what happens.

    How often do you call him each day?
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    Jan 3, 2011, 04:11 PM

    Maybe it just what he is saying, there is nothing new to talk about when you call. So just stop calling so much, let him call you for awhile!! For whatever reason he is getting BORED!! Let go some, let him notice you doing some new things, new hobbies,or a new class or anything that doesn't include HIM. He needs to re-notice that you are an neat person, and have a lot to offer!! Good luck.
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    Jan 3, 2011, 04:14 PM

    "According to his phone records, he calls people all day long at work."

    It very well could be work related phone calls, which he would be allowed to do at work, but personal phone calls are viewed as unprofessional and might get him fired.
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    Jan 3, 2011, 04:19 PM

    Sounds like he's feeling a bit smothered. I know that many young people feel the need to constantly call their significant others. Thanks to cell phones you can get in touch with someone 24/7. It's ruining relationship IMO.

    He wants some down time.

    Did you ask why he didn't buy you a Christmas present, or kiss you on New Years? Sounds like you really need to talk to him about this and find out what's going on. Only he knows. We can only guess.

    Good luck.
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    Jan 3, 2011, 04:45 PM

    Can't call

    No Christmas gift

    No New Year smooch

    I would be long gone, then he wouldn't have to worry if I was interesting or not. I'm sure you can find someone that likes your attention, and finds you interesting enough to buy you a freakin' Christmas gift!!
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    Jan 3, 2011, 07:56 PM
    Honey, unfortunately he just might not be into you. Just try not bothering him during the day for awhile and see if he warms up some.
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