[sarah_jones]

Hello, I have a very complex problem..
In school, there was this guy in my class. And I was crazy about him. But he was never interested in girls. And he is straight. I hardly ever used to talk to him, but that didn't mean I didn't love him. He had a twin who used to study in some other city. Anyway, after I passed out from school, I joined a college some 1000 miles away from my hometown. But I still couldn't forget him. One day, I met him online. He looked slightly different, but his name and everything else was the same, So I assumed that this guy was my ex-classmate and so, we started chatting everyday and then calling each other over phone and stuff. I got into some serious trouble in the meanwhile and this guy stood by me like a rock and helped me out. I was totally in love with him. And after about 6 months this guy tells me he loves me a lot, and I tell him I love him a lot too. And he takes me home to meet his family, and it's there that he tells me that he has a confession to make - that we were never classmates and that it was actually his twin who was in my class. Obviously, I recognised his twin then and there (he is more handsome) and I was really shocked and felt cheated. Now the problem is that this guy really loves m, whereas his twin (my ex-classmate) is not even one bit interested. And except the fact that he lied to me, I have nothing against him. In fact, our level of thinking and nature are ditto same and there was a point when I actually thought that we were soulmates. He doesn't even look at other girls and really cares about me. But I am not able to love him anymore. I still love his twin who doesn't love m at all and never will. I am totally devastated. Please help me out. Thanks for reading it patiently.

[Wondergirl]

Why are YOU devastated? The twin who loves you should be devastated.

How can we help you out? You love the wrong guy. Only you can fix that.

[sarah_jones]

The thing is - I am really connected with this other twin too.. and he is one of those caring types and is a true sweetheart. I kind of dun want to break his heart. A part of me loves him too, but wenever I see my old crush - I forget everything else.

[Wondergirl]

Then drop both of them and, instead, please work on your spelling and punctuation. When you signed on to this site, you agreed not to use chat/texting.

[Homegirl 50]

The guy lied to you led you on for months.
What a dishonest thing to do, and you're concerned about his feelings?
The one you love does not seem to care about you and the other guy has been playing a cruel joke on you for months.
Leave them both alone.